You've tried to get control of this more times than you can count. Control was never the answer.

BINGE EATING DISORDER THERAPY-LYNNWOOD

Maybe it's the nights that end with you standing in the kitchen, eating past the point of fullness, feeling like someone else took over. Maybe it's the cycle you know by heart — restrict, cave, eat, spiral, swear it off, repeat. Maybe you've tried every version of "getting it under control" and you're exhausted from trying.

You didn't come here because you have no willpower. You came because something deeper is going on, and part of you already knows it.

This isn’t about food. It never really was.

Most women who find their way to my office don't arrive saying "I have binge eating disorder." They say things like "I feel out of control around food" or "I eat emotionally and I hate myself for it" or "I've tried everything and nothing sticks."

What they're describing is real, it's common, and it has nothing to do with discipline or self-control. The eating is never the root — it's the response. It's what happens when the body is trying to regulate something it doesn't have another way to handle.

That's not a character flaw. That's a nervous system doing exactly what nervous systems do.

Food is one of the oldest forms of comfort we have.

Here's something most eating disorder treatment gets wrong- it treats food like the enemy. But food isn't the problem. Food is the solution your body found, probably a long time ago, when it needed one. Outside of physical touch, eating is the first way any of us is ever soothed. It's primal, ancient, and beautiful.

And for a lot of women, particularly those whose hardest experiences happened in childhood, food became the most available and reliable source of regulation they had. Kids are resourceful. They work with what they've got. So before we talk about changing your relationship with food, we talk about what food has been doing for you. Because something that kept you safe deserves respect, not shame.

Trauma and binge eating are deeply connected, and that connection is often the missing piece that every previous attempt at "fixing" this skipped right over.

My approach is rooted in the belief that your body is not the problem to be solved — and that real, lasting change comes from working with it, not against it.

No meal plans. No food rules. No grading what you ate.

HOW WE WORK TOGETHER

The Methods We Use

Intuitive Eating

If you've spent years cycling between restriction and eating past fullness, your body's natural hunger and fullness signals have probably gone quiet. Intuitive eating is the process of rebuilding that trust — slowly, without pressure, and without any food being off the table. The goal is a relationship with food that feels peaceful, even around the foods that currently feel loaded or scary.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

A lot of binge eating happens in that window between a difficult feeling and not knowing what to do with it. ACT builds the capacity to sit with discomfort without immediately needing to move away from it. We work on emotional flexibility, mindfulness, and the kind of regulation that actually transfers to real life.

Somatic Awareness

The body keeps a running record of everything that's happened to it, and binge eating is often one of the ways that record tries to surface. Somatic work brings your attention back into your body — not to judge what you find there, but to understand it. We look at how a dysregulated nervous system drives eating patterns, and we work to restore that regulation from the inside out.

Brainspotting

This is a body-based approach that goes where traditional talk therapy often can't. Brainspotting accesses and processes the trauma, stuck emotions, and deep-seated beliefs about yourself that sit underneath the eating patterns. For women who have done therapy before and felt like they hit a ceiling, this is often where things finally start to move.

I bring my whole self into this work because it matters too much not to.

WHAT MAKES WORKING WITH ME DIFFERENT

I don't treat binge eating as a weight problem with an eating symptom. I work from a Health at Every Size framework, which means your worth and your health are not determined by your body size, and weight loss is never the goal of our work together.

What I'm actually interested in is what's underneath. The emotion regulation piece. The trauma piece. The perfectionism, the self-criticism, the way you talk to yourself after a binge. Those are the things that, when they shift, change everything else.

You'll get honesty from me, not performance. You'll get someone who takes your history seriously and doesn't rush you toward a tidy resolution. And you won't get a single diet recommendation, ever.

Many of the women I work with have already tried other approaches — other therapists, programs, books, apps. What tends to make the difference isn't a new technique. It's having someone who genuinely understands the full picture of what drives this, and who can hold that complexity with you without flinching.

FOR THE WOMEN WHO ARE READY TO GO DEEPER

The Binge Eating Intensive

Three days. Three hours per day. Designed to do what months of weekly sessions sometimes can't.

$4,300 — Investment

The intensive includes an intake session, three full days of deep therapeutic work, a follow-up session, a workbook, and a gift basket. It's built for women who are done with slow and want to get to the root of this, fast. This isn't right for everyone, and it doesn't need to be. But if you've read this far and something in you is leaning forward, it might be worth a conversation.

Something that kept you safe deserves respect, not shame.

The out-of-control feeling. The shame spiral. The exhaustion of trying the same things and expecting different results. If you recognise yourself in any of that, I'd love to talk.

A consultation call is the simplest first step. We'll talk about where you are, what you've already tried, and whether working together makes sense. No pressure, no commitment — just a real conversation.

Ebb and Flow — Lynnwood, Washington. In-person and virtual sessions available.

If any of this has felt like being seen — let's connect.

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Ebb and Flow Counseling in Lynnwood, WA, is where evidence-based trauma healing meets intuitive spiritual growth. Brooke Brandeberry helps clients break free from anxiety, binge eating, and narcissistic abuse using powerful tools like Brainspotting and Accelerated Resolution Therapy. Whether you choose weekly sessions or a groundbreaking 1-2 day intensive, this practice offers a safe, non-judgmental container to stop crawling through life and start living with intention and deep connection.